Well, guys welcome to my another blog and thank you for reading my previous ones.

In this blog, I am going to talk something about attention. Everyone wants attention, from at least someone in their life. But since we all are in an age where people have got really nothing to with others' matters, its really difficult to attract people. But one important question that blocks our way to this is “Is it good to attract people's attention?”

Sometimes, we feel like the people whom we call as friends, do not really call us the same. As if they say nice things in front and insult us on our back. The problem is, we can never know. But remember one thing, if you feel like that, most probably its true.

In my view, feeling succeeded in gaining peoples attention could sometimes be stupid. It is so because it also depends on the people around you. For example there are some people who really don't care about you, or anyone. Think about it, who are the people who's attention makes you feel good? Are they some VIPs or celebrities? Do they even deserve you time?

Be careful when you follow the masses…sometimes the M is silent

The feeling of being prioritized can be wonderful. But remember one thing, by seeking peoples attention, rather than giving importance to yourself, you are giving importance to them, who are not even worth it. They would just pass a fake smile, which makes you feel obsessed.

I think that the best way to seek peoples attention is by not trying to seek attention. If your friends can do great stunts on the bike, instead of doing the same and risking you life, you say, “I am not really good at it”. If your friends play games like PUBG and compete with each other, instead of wasting you expensive time on it, you tell them, “I don't really like such games”. If you have a nice phone, instead of showing it off in front of all, you keep it to yourself and use it for useful things. If your friends have millions of followers on social sites, instead of running behind followers, have a clean image of yourself in real life. If they have boyfriends/girlfriends, instead of trying to impress someone for yourself, tell them that it is a waste of time, which it really is.

I know that it might feel like being insulted in front of all and being declared the so called noob, it actually adds value to your character. In the beginning, it felt to me like no one would ever respect me, but today I feel good when my friends jokingly say, “Tumko to in sab cheezon ke baare mein kuchh pata hi nahi hai”(You know nothing about these things). Pretty much because I know that while saying this, they give value to me.

Personality can open doors, but only character can keep them open.

After all, its all about your character and not your personality, because it helps you in the long run. Its not about having attention, its about having value which matters more.

I hope this advice works well for you. Thank you for coming this far.

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