We all felt a situation inside a classroom where we are not interested in listening to the teacher. Instead, we would be watching outside the window, that might be a tree or a bird humming etc. Even though sometimes the reason was that the class was boring. But most of the time, we try to listen to the nature. Even though it doesn’t speak, the beauty of it attracts us all. Likewise some people will influence others without speaking a word. Mac west, a famous Hollywood actress once said, “ I speak two language, body and English”. By this we can understand that a person stands out (not really outside the place) by his body language. Hello, it is I Franz and in this blog I will be giving 5 body language tips to develop an attractive person. If that’s sounds interesting, hit that heart button. And please do follow me for more useful content like this. (Also I need to get out of the rockie level 0. So it just a request). So lets get started.
1) Calm and alarm with palm
Palm plays an integral part in deciding the mood of the conversation. Improper way of using of palm will change the mode of the situation. Let us consider that you are shouting “enough”. Will you say it by just pointing a finger or by shaking your hands with others? If you want to become an Empathic, Inclusive and funny, use your hands in a right way. Allan pease once said, “ The power is in the palm of your hands.
2) Feet and chest towards the guest.
You cannot influence a person who doesn’t feel valued by your company. The best way to avoid it is to listen to them attentively. This could be achieved not only by your ears but also by your body and expression.
Try to lean a bit forward (not too forward to make them scare). Nod your head. Show them that you are interested in them.
3) Stop grudging by buzzing and trudging.
An influential person owns the place wherever they go. Their body expression speaks without having a mouth. I am not saying that be very careful and conscious on your ways. But instead, be confident and comfortable with place and people. Here are some ways to apply it in your day-to-day life.
Random shoulders shrugging
Jainine driver, a FBI agent said that they had found many criminals by their body language. Especially by their shoulder shrugging. This reflects uncertainty. It also shows weak personality.
Grooming with smaller adjustments
Don’t just play with your hair, correcting your shirt, keeping your hands inside the pocket. Instead keep your feet a bit apart and your shoulders and hands rest on your side. (Don’t fold it). Just don’t drag your legs on the ground. Especially don’t be fiddling with your phone and watch. This gives a bad impression on you.
4) Don’t chase to break the space
Space is an unattended topic in our life. Yet it is a strong determinant of personality in our body language. Anthropologist Edward hall termed proxemics as the “ Science of space between two people while speaking”. It is not a rocket science. He presented it in four categories.
In public space, there must be 12-25 feet distance between you and a person who is a public to you. I.e. when you’re in a seminar.
In social space, there must be 4-12 feet distance between you and your college, friend, customer, etc.
In personal space, there must be 1-4 feet distance from you and your family, relative and your close ones.
Influential person will maintain this distance as much as he could.
5) Eye contact
Eyes are the flag bearer of your first impression. If someone is wearing a sunglasses or things like that, they already lose this skill JUST REMOVE IT. A perfect ratio of an eye contact would be 60:40. Continuously seeing them will make them feel like you are a ghost or a serial killer and less contact will make you lose them. The more you use it properly, the more people will you attract.
And that’s it for today guys. And I need to mention that this content was inspired by Chetna vasishth. So thank you guys for reading my blog. If you like it, please consider to following me. Hit that heart icon if you love this and leave your comments in the comments box. Finally thank you for reading. BYE.
