Published May 8, 2021
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Friends Vs Foes {Part -2 }(Girlfriend Story)

Published May 8, 2021
2 mins read
446 words

Plz READ ParT-1 for better understanding

Continuing my definition of REAL FRIEND :-

  • He will protect you from other toxic friends/girlfriends :- You may feel if your friend is telling you to let go of your girlfriend , he is saying so because he is jealous of you.(It may be true , but in most cases it won't be because if he is really jealous of you and he want her for himself , instead of convincing you to leave her , he will try to convince her to leave you .. Think about it , Will he be able to roam with her , after convincing you she is  a bi**** ).There is a high possibility that he is telling you to leave her because he is able to see things which you may not be able to because you are blinded by love (think about it .. Don't you think it is obvious to not commit suicide if you are being bullied at school instead approach parents or teachers but yet they commit suicide . Wouldn't you like to have a friend who could counsel you ,remove your blindfold ,show you the right path ). Here is my story I was trapped in a toxic relationship ..My girlfriend used to bully me since I was not able to satisfy her greed.. I needed some sympathy , my mind was constantly occupied thinking about the reason for not picking up her phone . I needed someone's advice so I approached my so called friend ,told him entire situation .He instead for showing sympathy for me ,took her side  and convinced me that the cause of all my trouble is one ME. She is demanding everything you must give in a relationship and if I am incapable fulling her desires I must work harder >> I am grateful one more friend showed his color and got shifted to list of foes
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If you really have a person which full fill all the above points .. Bravo.. you may consider him your friend..(If you more than 2 people in your friend list I should consider you lucky.. As Point 2(in part -1 ) filtered almost 95% of my friends list).

HOW To Identify foes ??

Its not that difficult to identify foes as compared to friends but here are some  additional points(additional to opposite of above points ) which may help you identify a foes:-

  • Calls you only when there is a stuff he needs help with
  • Don't leave his comfort zone to help you
  • Is too interested in your life and hardly shares his life stories .
  • Always criticize you (even for the things you are good at)
  • Blames you for his failures 

 

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#story
#friends
#friend_forever
#haters
#enemies
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