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Be Extremely Selfish | My Secret To Success | Part -3
In the previous 2 blogs I have explained the need and the meaning of extreme selfishness and in this blog I am going to tell What all changes you will experience after adopting extreme selfishness ..
Consequences of Adopting Extreme Selfishness >>
- Complete Loss Of Empathy - You would no longer feel the pain of others , you would see everyone needing your empathy as a burden on you as well as on earth . You would see them as weak trying to get attention of everyone through their failures rather than success . Not only you would see the so called/claimed victim as useless but also the people spending their time cheering him up .
- Loss Of Friends - When you start focusing on yourself , you would not have the time to entertain the calls of your useless friends who talk about things that don't add any value to your life . I remember saying to my friends ,"Stop calling or messaging me for useless stuff , I value my time unlike you . So next time you call me I expect something important ". And guess what I haven't got a call since then . (I didn't block him)
- You start finding things like Lives of Celebrities ,TV ,News, Social Media ,Gossips as well as people spreading them, Girlfriends/Boyfriends useless- “If you don't pay for a product then you are the product.” This is one of the best quote to start explaining this point . All these things that abuse your time becomes worthless when you start focusing on your development . It does not matter to you what is happening in this country anymore because you can't really do anything about it . Anyone supporting trends to postpone exams would appear to you as retarded . Following celebrities , dressing like them , fighting over who is better footballer your ideal or my ideal are things which appear to me the things most future unsuccessful people do . It's like clapping for a person in gucci clothes while you standing naked . A successful man told me that never see other successful people while you yourself are struggling/suffering because they are not going to suffer to see you . Well , all your connections from people who spread gossips would have already be broken so gossips , and gossip spreading people would not be problem for you . Girlfriend/boyfriend you would fail to make because for such a relationship you need to give 50% of your life's excess to another person . So until they are not capable of handling that you would stay away from them even if you got an offer from the most beautiful incompetent partner.
- Your success list starts filling - No need to explain I think ….