Hi everyone…

This is my first blog as well as my experience.all of us women think that after a first breakup of marriage ,we have to live alone and no need of men in our life .only our kids will go with us till our last breath.but situation decides a second partner for our life.we may be right at this decision but it's not right all the time .anyhow the soul going to suffer is our kids.small argument with our new relationship and misunderstanding obviously affects our kids.

Our new partner will not take care of our kids with full heart because this baby is from the other sperm in our womb…

Small penny to small behaviour irritates our new partner. All his family will hate our kids shows partiality ..this will sure hurt you and our kids….

So try to maintain a distance between a new relation and our kids to avoid hurtings and partiality behaviours.

Try to keep our kids independence with our new relation and independent in money matters, his happiness etc…

All are new relation will not give you assurance of your new life sure it will give you pain and a life inside a jail..

Whenever you are in a new relation you have to be in control of your emotions, pain and your happiness when you try to say yout expectation then it will make your second partner to think about your first partner and whenever you try to say your emotions and expectations your second partner will think that you are missing your first partner then he will start to control your happiness and freedom and make you depend on him for everything and he will doubt on you for a small reasons and he will doubt on your small move, this will really hurt you and make you think that being alone is better than living with the second partner for your security and your happy life… I suggest all of you not to get in a new relation after your first break up of marriage it's better to be all alone with our kids than living with a new partner is a bad decision for you and for your kids…. So I am telling you nobody in this world would love to get into a new relation after reading this because this is my bad bad experience living in our second life… so girls or women be happy when you are alone sure you will not be happy when you are with the second partner

 thank you for reading….