Regret is something that every person has but the only difference is in the pain of regretion. It might be less for someone on the other hand it might be Savage for the others.
There are some research about it and it is found that what adults regret the most is the choices regarding their studies. And at some other levels it could change to the decision about career, parenting and romance as well.
When any parent regrets and want to go back in the past but it can't be happen so they target their children to fulfill what they didn't.
As the result children under their parent gets suffocated, sacrificed, suffered and pressurized not as their will goes.
For instance we could take a student who knows what to do in future but when he/she appears for the 10th boards and get good percentage then suddenly his/her parents starts their role in vanishing 'their' regrets.
They start imposing their choices what they should had done to their child and there starts a ‘NEW’ and ‘SUFFOCATED’ life for the child.
This is not the case ALWAYS sometimes becoming what parents want becomes the DREAM of the child and this is the best part of the life and it results in happiness success and SUKOON.
Child have to do according to their parents in either cases but in the second case 'suffocated' vanishes from the 'NEW' life.
Regret of the parents imposed on the children not only affects the student's life but also afterwards because the CYCLE begins here again as the children didn't get to do what they wanted they hope their children to fulfill their dreams and this is the saddest part.
Practically the point is there's no happiness in all this so what's the point of making someone's life full of regret as theirs whereas thinking and saying - "Do whatever you want I don't want you to be like me" should be the case.
This was all about education and career what about romance and parenting ?
This also happens when others mendle in someone's life and the fact is this is mostly the case.
In new Era all these are decreasing at higher level because in new generation and urban areas no one's mendle in other's life there's no time for that and parents are literate and are more understanding and comfortable because they have witnessed these from years and they don't want to continue the CYCLE.
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