In our country as always, marks are given more importance a student’s life, if a student scores good marks then he/she is a scholar, an intelligent kid but when another student who tries to study and is still not able to study then he/she is mischievous, and ill-mannered. Without even knowing the real reason behind why the child is not able to study Indian parents just force them to do the thing they are trying but not able to do. 

The main problem of our parents is that they never try to understand the reason behind their child’s movements and actions, they simply say “Bigad Gaya Hain”. Without even trying to find out what the problem is they’re looking for the solution. And how we forget the biggest superpower of our parents which is none another than comparing us with those Sharma Ji ka kid. Why don’t they get one thing that every student is not the same, as our five fingers are not same butall are important at its own time and place, its as simple as that.

Why don’t they understand that only qualification is not enough, knowledge, manners, ethics are also as important as education. You once scold your child for going out with his friends and next time he’ll fool you with the excuse of extra classes. If any parent is reading this, it’s a hearty request please do not act so strict with your kids that you lose the respect they had for you. Always try to be your kid’s first and best friend, if you do so your child will be frank with you and never lie about things he shouldn’t even. All the Indian parents have those same dialogues and tactics which have now become old as we all know everybody uses social media and especially kids these days are so merged in social media that every meme or fact they see becomes relatable for them. 

I am telling all this because I’ve myself seen my friends lying their parents about where they are going, where they are and all. I feel so blessed that my parents are none of those typical Indian parents who keep watch on their kids, check their mobile phones, track their kids, etc. My parents never forced me to earn good marks they always taught me how to earn respect and gratitude.

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