Published Feb 2, 2023
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Is Your Friend Avoiding You?

Published Feb 2, 2023
2 mins read
431 words

All relationships exist only on mutual love and trust. Openness and communication often make relationships stronger and deeper. But sometimes there is a situation where the close ones ignore it. Being ignored for hours or even days can be very frustrating. It is not possible to express the distress that arises then. There are people who always pick up the phone and check because they are expecting a message from that person. When someone ignores you on purpose, they may be confused about whether to send messages or call or not. Let's see what are some things to keep in mind in such a situation.

Are you OK?

This is a very simple question. This is the most important thing to ask the person if they don't answer you. Asking them about their current mood will let them know that you want to talk to them, no matter the situation. This simple question is likely to quickly sink into people's minds.

I am right here.

There are many kinds of problems that go through people. Some can be shared with others, while others cannot be. We cannot tell what state of mind the person sitting opposite is in. Some people try not to talk to people in that situation. If you're not sure if your friend is having a problem, don't immediately assume they don't want to talk. Send them a message that lets them know you're here for them.

Say what's on your mind.

If you want to restart the conversation with your friend, expressing your feelings to someone else can be effective. If expressed sincerely, this will reduce the distance in the relationship and let the person know that you really care about them.

Please inform any interesting matters.

It's a great way to catch up with a friend after days of not talking. You can start talking to them again by sending them an interesting incident or a mistake about you.

There is nothing wrong with asking ‘sorry’.

If your actions have hurt someone else, apologizing is the main way to make things right. The word 'sorry' can help soften many wounds. And when you start a conversation that respects their decision not to talk, it gives them a good impression that you respect their boundaries. It is always an effective method.

Mutual trust, love and understanding play a major role in maintaining any relationship. Understanding and supporting each other as well as keeping certain things in person is essential for healthy relationships. For any relationship to be successful, both parties must work together. 

Thank you for reading! 

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