Don Miguel Ruiz's 'The Four Agreements is about the beliefs that limit our abilities.  The author systematically investigates them and inspires us to self-change.  More than 6.5 million copies of this book have been sold in America alone.

1 Agreement ie what:- 

We do not know when our attention is drawn toward the agreements.  Is.  We grow up with them, we are told the difference between good-bad, acceptable-unacceptable and we mold ourselves according to them.  We do not choose our religion, moral values, or language, and the same with other agreements.  It is important to be aware of them.  

2 Be careful of words:- 

We do not know the power of words but they have the ability to make or break us.  Just because you are careful with your words does not mean that you will inhibit yourself.  This means that you will take responsibility for your words.  The best way to know the power of words is to find out how much you love yourself. 

 3 Don't take it to heart:-

 Whatever is happening around you, don't take it personally.  If someone misbehaves with you, he is talking about himself, not about you.  You don't need to take it to heart.  But you take things personally because you agree with what others say.  You forget that it is just their opinion, nothing more.
 

4. Don't speculate:- 

We all have a habit of making predictions about things, fantasizing, and speculating. The problem with this is that we end up believing things that were only in our head and not real.  .  If we are speculating about a person, it is sure that we will misunderstand the situation.  

5 Clarify once:- 

Why do we speculate?  Because we are afraid to ask for clarification.  We think in advance that such and such a thing will be like this, but we do not do a thorough investigation about it.  While it is always better to ask questions and diagnose speculations.  Remember, speculations are always going to get us into trouble because they are imaginary.  

6 Others also have their own thinking:-

 Suppose you decide to marry someone.  But at the same time, you make assumptions about your future partner and assume that he will also be in line with it, this is going to create conflict situations because the other person has his own thinking and he has absolutely no idea What did you think about him?  clarify things.
 

7 Always give your best:-

 Whatever may be the situation, always try to give your best.  Your best isn't always going to be the same, but keep giving your best no matter what the results come.  Don't forget that while overdoing may leave you exhausted, underdoing will leave you with guilt and regret, and that's worse.