1 Why keep affection? 

 Often you have been taught, 'Don't be attached to any person or thing.  Attachment is an obstacle in the path of development.  'Who said that there will be no development if there is attachment?  Attached to the earth, when the tree spread its roots deep into the soil, then it grew healthy and did everyone a favor by giving fruits.  If it is uprooted and removed from the earth, it will perish.  

The same is true for you as well.  If your nature is to be affectionate, don't try to change it.  Containing oneself in a narrow circle makes it difficult to keep attachment, and there is a problem even if the attachment is removed.  

The most isolated is not growth when there is no difference between 'self-alien' when you remove the thinking of 'I, mine' and become completely attached with the whole world little by little, then your life will be perfect.  When the attachment is equal to every human being, to every living being, it is not bad, but if it is only to the chosen ones, it becomes a cause of suffering.

2 Way of living - Generosity: - 

Revered Sadgurudev Ji said - God is the provider of life's accomplishments and God's grace.  Therefore, keep the divine feelings like selflessness, generosity, and benevolence safe.  It is in the tree of generosity that the flowers of gratitude blossom and spread their fragrance.  It is the generosity of the flower that any whirlpool can take its pollen.  Any passer-by can inhale its fragrance.  On becoming liberal, a person starts living easily according to his nature.  

The seed forgets the attachment of its life.  Then it becomes a tree and gives fruits and flowers.  So the way to live with people and for people is generosity.  The root of generosity is giving.  Even if the person in front has an opportunity to speak his mind.  Liberalism means giving more importance to the front and giving free of ego.  To give up the feeling of doership.  Generosity is not a habit, it is a sacrament, which is related to the soul. 

 There is no negativity in this, people of culture leave an indelible impression for a lifetime by expressing their special generosity with their 'Sarv Mangal Bhava'.  Traditions like fodder for the cow, grain for the birds, and 'Keedi Nagara' for the ants may be carried on in the name of religion, but the insurmountable task of creating respect for the creature in the mind of a person is easily done.  The vibrations of these feelings keep the energy of the body balanced.  The body remains happy and healthy.