We are all familer with word and concept of Comparison. I grew up in a very competitive environment and i guess a lot of others also have a similar story to relate to. Having cousins, siblings or neighbors of almost the same age exposes us to the comparasion competation ,where we constantly have been compared to one another. Habit of comparing ourselves to rest of the world is worse .
We must realise there is always gonna be someone better than u no matter wat.
Despite being the best u will learn sooner or later that there is someone out there who can do it better than u. I know this was supposed to be a inspirational blog but I'm here to state the facts . So accepting the fact that' we can't always be the best and only one and working on being a better persons is rather smart.
This is not only gonna be a positive change in life but also the key to happy life . Comparison's a habit tat we have built up since we were kids, we are thought comparison is supposed to be healthy this motivates to grow.
In this whole process we either win or loose but of we do fail to prove ourselves we eventually loose hope and be in this endless misery. To Prove that we can be better than the compared person can go both ways a good path and the bad one which is rather dangerous.
I can go on and on and on about all the bad things I would love to suggest you to put light on the positive ones.
Comparasion is always told to be healthy but is it ? Is it actually helathy as we โquoteโ it to be ?
Let's question ourselves we have done it too in the name of โHEALTHYโ but now's the time to make a change and realise comparison's toxic and be the change .
Changes are difficult,a habit of lifetime takes a lot of effort to change but 'never say never '. Every small change counts a small bit also makes a difference and if this could bring a small bit of change in Ur life tat would mean the world to me and of course to u and all the people u love and care about and vise versa.
Like I said the question we must ask ourselves is not if I'm better than him/ her is not the question the actual question is
AM I A BETTER VERSION TODAY?
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