One of the most important things that we tend to forget is not loving ourselves. Before loving any one else we must discover and develop all the reasons to love and pamper ourselves and when we will be able to achieve the state of self love to the fullest,  then automatically we will be able to love others fully and will be loved by them in return in the same magnificence.

Many people face issues when in extreme they tend to doubt themselves and all this originates because of lack of self confidence which is nothing but. result of lack of self love and gratitude. The problem rises to such an exorbitant level that people step into the venous world of depression thus ruining their as well as ther dear one's lives.

Because we lack the ability to love ourselves, we get easily trapped into the tricks played by this witty world and then we could do nothing but see it getting worse day by day. We tend to degrade and devalue ourselves in our own eyes which gives opportunity to the seed of over thinking to deepen within our brain and when then deepens further and starts to bare shoot then the only way out is to just munch on the awful dark fruits of irritation and hatred that too both for others and ourselves. We slowly tend to live a life of hell hurting others and ourselves,  disrespecting each and everyone in each and every way possible and then living in that guilt is another vicious loop because we feel that we should not have done or acted like that and we are sorry for that but then our ego or extraordinary self esteem forbids us from expressing our guilt to others which on the other hand discourages us and starts to shove away all the good values and cultures inhabited by us in all these beautiful stages of our life. 

See., if we tend to see all these causes deeply and analyse them one by one we will reach a conclusion where we will find that the main reason for such disasters in our lives is nothing but only the lack of self love.

So just remember one thing that you are an ocean of love and you are non other than love but in physical existence so just radiate love in this beautiful beautiful world because you will thrive in it only when love will.