Everyone in today's world wants to be a certain way irrespective of the fact whether they want to change themselves or not. This is not right. One must portray his or her true self to the out side world because one can fake his or her personality once or twice before the world at large but one cannot fake it all his or her life, one day or the other, the true nature of the person will be revealed to the whole world and the result of it could be devastating for the person in general.

So why do people change?? or tend to trigger change??

The only reason one could think of is to portray their so called best images to the world, but what for?? Relationships?? Career?? Friendship?? Respect?? To stand to expectations??

Well reasons could be many and in varying degrees but one must not change for anything or anyone no matter what is at stake against it. But you will see that people change magnificently simply because they have either achieved something big in life or have grown in money many folds. This is absurd stupidity and nothing else because if one changes because of his or her circumstances , it is acceptable and understandable but if you change yourself just because you earned some bundles of money, then you are the dumbest person in this world.

Then there are people who change because they think that they are not suited for a particular relation with a particular person and if they change for so called better,  they would be become a right fit for that relationship. Let me tell you one thing crystal clear, if the former person expects you to change and then he or she will develop a relation with you then please do a favour to yourself and abandon that person and relationship then and there because he or she was never able to understand the real you and your life will become a hell with him or her, so its better to back out in the very beginning.

Nature is almighty and she has made you unique and incomparable and there is no symmetry in nature or what you called perfection but the very fact of vagueness and distinctiveness makes nature such an adorable piece of art and culture. So respect nature, respect yourself and say

#DO NOT CHANGE #NOCHANGE