Published Jun 20, 2021
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I Myself Asking For A Pain

Published Jun 20, 2021
2 mins read
431 words

                               Everyone has some kind of expectation from another person, to want something desired to be done or want to be relied on them or may be have to some emotion towards them and many other expectations can be hold by a person.
                                 To hold on something to limited extent is not a bad thing but expecting things from another one may leads you to sorrow. This word expectation is always like this if you are expecting something which is on your mind or you want it to be done and anyhow it’s not done Then this surely made you feel down.
                                 Let me tell you by example, the next day it’s your birthday and you are so excited about tomorrow, you have plans in your mind for your birthday. Now on your birthday no one remember this day, everything is normal as usual, nothing special on your special day. Then you are having thought that “they might want to surprise me in evening by throwing party or by taking me somewhere…that’s why they are pretending to forget my birthday” and now it’s about to dinner time but still there is no scenery in front of your eyes, everyone is taking their regular meal, but still you are hoping that “they might have another plan for my birthday instead of normal evening celebration”.
But…….         
 Finally it’s the end of the day you are in bed with full of emotions and watery eyes. 
Now I have question for you why there is sad moment?
And I know your answer… you will surely tell “it’s her birthday, she must have celebration or at least good wishing and remembrance”
But mine answer will be differ…
                               
                                It’s totally your fault to expecting a celebration from other persons. You were expecting that they will wish you, celebrate with you ,the whole day you were keep expecting different things and when your expectation leads you nowhere that made you sad.
                               If you stop expecting and keep doing things by yourself or let you ‘to be happy and be yourself’ then there is no going back. The whole day instead of hoping from other persons, you were needed to make your day brighten, that was an opportunity you missed.
                                It’s all about ourselves. At the end I won’t say, to have no expectations but I must say to have expectations which is in our concern, in our criteria, which are in our hands, which is possible to be happen with no harm.

Cheers…. With no expectations… BUT With happiness…

#expectations
#sorrow
#lesson
#excess
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