What we should do and What we are doing exactly. In today's world people actually forget how to enjoy the life. We forgot how to enjoy the particular events with joyfully and with full enthusiasm. Sometimes you actually have to become kid in order to enjoy life. Let me tell you about some particular events. 

What to do when you go to a fair….

Wandering, seeing the fair, seeing the colorful shops or buying something that only comes in the fairs.

But if you refuse to sit in that big swing

′′ You don't know how to enjoy the fair ′′

Going to a wedding..

Meet every relative with a smile. If you are too close, you will share your hands even in the work. We listen to dance and songs with a lot of clapping.

But... if you don't know how to dance and sing

′′ You don't know how to enjoy marriage ′′

Going to a resort or picnic with family or friends...

 You are happy to see the beauty of the resort / picnic spot.

Taking and clicking lots of pictures.

But if you don't get into the swimming pool with family / friends.

′′ You don't know how to enjoy picnic ′′

Went to a hill station 

To celebrate holidays, to relax away from the daily rush.

But if you don't go there and get up early in the morning and get ready for the morning views.

′′ You don't know how to enjoy holidays ′′

This is a very long list

We judge people every moment, every time for their behavior, their choice, their way of living

Everyone can have their own definition of enjoyment.

Reading books may be the best way for me to enjoy but not for you

Blanket snuggles on holiday for me can be enjoyment and you can go on an adventure trip

Can I have a book / art exhibition enjoyment and a crowded mall for you

So why don't we let people enjoy our lives the way they do without judging. And if our partner is of different nature than us, then either harmony should be made in both ways or both should live on their own without complaints

Like I don't like to play Holi but I do n'T mind watching people play. They play enjoy and let me enjoy watching

Everyone should have the right to live their life in their own way... isn't it.

                                                 Thank you for reading.