Many of us think, that people do not care for us, so they are unhappy.

Yes sometimes we really need that support and that love from our family and society and every little being around us. 

But many of us get a lot of love from our families and friends during our growing periods, if not all of us. But should we constantly want that love from every people around us?? 

When we are matured and grown up and when we are in our growing stages we need to learn to love life because we are fortunate enough to live in it. 

We should be complete by ourselves and our happiness should be result of our efforts and our hard work. Sometimes a good night's sleep becomes the greatest happiness for most of the people who are working in night shifts. Many people in this world cannot get a good sleep , some have insomnia, some have different diseases which prevent them from a nights sleep. 

So don't think a nights sleep is everybody's cup of tea. If you are earning a deep sleep in night for yourself without any tension or any pain in your body or mind then that should itself give you a lot of happiness.

If you have managed yourself a way of earning, then that should give you a feeling of great happiness. 

If you have learned to cook good yummy healthy tasty food for yourself then you should be happy. 

All these kind of happiness does not require others partnership or help. You singly can manage.

But what's concerning is that when your happiness depends on others action or reaction. 

Give that power to nobody to create unhappiness in your life. But that does not mean you have to be extremely selfish or ruthless or unkind to everybody around you.

See, when you cut your finger when you are cutting your nails, that's a pin caused to you by yourself. So is anybody else responsible for it? Then again if you apply a antiseptic and your pain gets relieved then also you are responsible to release yourself from the pain. So that should be the attitude towards life. 

Nobody is actually responsible for your pain or happiness. Each one of us are solving our life's problems, each one of us difficulties in life. So please do not blame or point anyone for your happiness or sadness. 

Nobody actually is responsible for it. Each person in this world is unique, they will express themselves according to their judgement and decision. They are different from you. They will say many things. But not every time to hurt you. If you are hurt by their words , they will even feel sorry if they come to know about it. But we keep blaming that person for nothing. 

So be responsible for your happiness, nobody is actually responsible for it. 😊👍❤