Youngsters are seen to commit most of the mistakes at their age. But why so ?? What actually is the problem with their age and them.
Actually Youngsters commit all mistakes out of rebel. Yes, that's the truth with every youngster. At their age their heart and minds are constantly battling fights with their conscious. What's good or bad? What right or wrong? What they should do and what not.
And no matter how much good intentions they have they would not get appreciation from their parents or others. So out of rebel they commit many mistake at their age.
Now are they rebellious? Its because everything that they decide to do is contradicted by their elders. Now they think that they are misunderstood.
Most of the times the elders want the best for the youngster so they scold them or contradict with them. The elders have seen a certain type of life and they have experienced a lot of good things and bad things in life. So they do not want their children to face the bad things. And that is the reason they always want to show the right path to their children.
Now there lies the problem. With the passing times, life changes, situation changes and the youngsters are subjected to a different form of a lifestyle altogether and this kind of a lifestyle was not experienced by their parents or elders. So the elders sometimes do not exactly understand the requirements of the new generation and they feel that what they had experienced in their lives , the same thing will be repeated with their children. Now that is where the problem lies.
No parents want to see their children suffer and out of care they tell their children to follow certain principles and things. But those things might require some modification in the new generation because generations changes. If this modification and understanding of the needs of the young generation is there, the youngsters would not rebel and commit mistakes. But sometimes the youngsters really are in the wrong track, so the youngsters should also understand why the elders are poking nose in their matters. Its simply because they want their children to be safe. This might hinder the freedom of the youngster but sometimes the elders actually succeeds in saving the youngsters from commiting mistakes.
Today I remember my teenager days and college days when I also used to rebel with my elders . And now I understand the reason why I used to rebel.
So parents has to understand the point of view of the youngster and the youngsters have got to use their brain while handling elders. I remember when I used to rebel with my parents , I used to do it so smartly that my elders used to be convinced by my point of view.
Even now also I rebel but I do it with certain wisdom. You just need to have a cool head every time in your life and everything will fall in place.