“What is love ? Pyar kya hai?” ~ Miss Briganza

"Pyar Dosti hai .."~ Rahul 

We all have came across this famous dialogue from a legendary movie KUCH KUCH HOTA HAI..

Can't deny that this movie was is and. Will be my favourite . As a kid I saw this movie because I enjoyed how kajol used to play basketball unknowingly I related to her's character in the movie because I was sporty too ..

As we grew up I related more as all of my friends liked those mini skirt shiny lip girls who can't even run properly .

Yeah I have always hated those girls and my friends flattered on them . 

Years passed and I understood that it's okay if I dress different .. it's okay if I don't like to put on makeup ,it's okay if I like to wear sneakers in place of high heels , it's okay to be in football team rather than being a cheerleader , not everyone is same and everyone got different personalities.

However all these things made me the “Bro” for everyone ..

Some even asked me if I wasn't straight or what .. that was hilarious.. just because I wear boish clothes people started judging me if I was straight or not. 

Yeah being called bro was cool until the guy I liked started calling be bro too … being bro-zoned really hurts… 

Almost all guys I talked to or thought that they migh be my love interest bro zoned me 😂 

Then I thought forget if they are counting me in their bro I might be special because not all girls can be the bro .. 😉 

Once I was chatting to a guy who bro zoned me and he asked me if I ever had a boyfriend I said no , that guy was quite surprised knowing that I didn't have a boyfriend  he asked me why so ? Re confirmed if I was straight .. I laughed out so bad I still remember .. he said you could get any guy in your dms I replied yeah but they don't date their Broz .. I told him I get bro zoned by everyone just like you did and that was the last time he called me bro 😂   

He said you're really a great friend people might be lucky .. I said yeah but being a really good friend doesn't help always right? 

There was an awkward silence between us . 

And suddenly he asked me for a date …..

But sadly our date is still pending due to the lockdown.

What I feel is for being in love it's important to be friends first .