There are so many important things in life that can actually cause your relationship to bloom. But there are also many points that can actually ruin your relationship with your partner. Its always better to avoid situations which will create distance in a relationship. So lets find out what are those points which can actually cause our relationships to suffer.
Privacy Invasion
Many of us have the habit of checking our partners mobile and if our husbands or partners do not answer our call on one short we get to think that something is very wrong. But why so?? Cant they be busy with their office work? they have gone to office to complete the job targets, so why then they have to think about you?? May be your partner will make a call later at some leisure available. There must be some privacy for each one of us and we must not try to invade our partners privacy always…and every time. We may question them but not invade them always…which also indicate that we do not trust them..!!
Demanding behavior
We all know our and our partners capacity, potential, weakness and strength points. So what's the use of putting them into test? When you know that your partner cannot afford you a diamond ring or a car, then why do you become so much demanding that you need the ring or the car…or you would carry out your nagging?? This is very very silly. We need to understand our partners capacity and then make our demands accordingly.
Space issue
Every relationship requires its own space to breath. You cannot demand your husband or wife to be constantly by your side for twenty four hours. This becomes very boring and we all need our own world to sustain. So giving a little bit of space in a relationship is a must for the relationship to thrive well.
Dishonesty
If you are dishonest to your partner and hide the truth from them most often, this cannot lead you to a healthy relationship. At the end everybody would realize the truth and that can ruin the relationship. So better you confess everything to your partner so that there is an transparency in the relationship.
Lack of compatibility
This is a common issue these days. Partners think that they are not compatible enough and so they make mistakes. Trust me when you chose your partner you had found them compatible, then why suddenly your relationship becomes incompatible?? There are different phase in life which makes us think that our partners are not compatible, but we should give time and be patient with the relationship.
Disrespect
Even if we are sad or broken we must make it a point not to show disrespect to our partners. This creates an impact in their minds which can never be wiped away even after a long time. So better not create such negative impacts…!!
Loyalty issue
Now this point is the most important point of the topic we are discussing today. Many relationships end because of loyalty issue. Its better not to be disloyal to our partners and cheat them behind their back. If you do not like your partner anymore, Go for a break up before cheating on them..
Anger
Anger can dissolve the relationship in a second. So we need to have control over our anger. Sometimes we can physically hurt our partners and also mentally hurt them with abusive words, just because of our anger. This should be a big ..No. No…!!
Sincerity
Sincerity is very important in a relationship. If I have taken the responsibility of my partner, I got to be sincere towards them. Its not something I am doing by force. But we should consider it to be our duty…!!