Now I am going to tell you a story about Meena. 

And why I would like to share this story is because this story could actually highlight the pros and cons of married life and married couples nowadays, This could actually give us a knowledge as to why many marriages break.

 So Meena was a happy bubbly girl in her college days. She had fallen in love with a guy but since her parents wont let her marry this guy so Meena had to marry the guy of her parents choice.

 The first few years after marriage were cool and they had a baby together.

After the baby's birth and while the baby was growing, Meena could understand that the bond between herself and her husband was breaking.

She had frequent fights with her husband because he was not giving importance to her financial and personal needs. The husband was continuously busy with his work and he did not leave a single time for Meena. He invested time on the baby but not to Meena.

Meena kept telling her sad story to everyone around her and slowly the fights between her and her husband was ending in hitting each other. 

Many friends of her suggested for marriage counseling and family discussion with the couple but the husband would never agree to this.

In the mean time Meena  could not take the ignorance of her husband anymore. She started dating with her pre marriage lover who was also married and both started to have extra marital affairs .

Meena was so much frustrated about herself, her life ands her marriage that she did not mind going to any levels to get that peace in mind. 

 Meena was from  a rich family but her husband was a very good scholar from a middle class family. 

Actually Meena's father wanted to teach Meena a lesson by getting her married to a hardworking guy. Meena was always asking for money from her parents and husband. She loved costly things in life, she loved attractive handsome men with high income and she could never accept any simple things in life.

She always used to complain her husband for having less money. They had their own well furnished flat, car, child educating in a breknowned school and everything that any good family could want for. But Meena was never satisfied with anything that she posseseed . 

She complained on the looks of her husband, his nature and everything about him in a negative way.

Actually Meena did not work on herself. She had a cook and maid to look her household. She was unfit and obese because she never took care of her fitness. 

She could not earn a penny because she was not hardworking. She could not do household chores because there was no fame in homemaking. 

She wanted costly things and attractive things to prove her value. When the truth is that she had almost no value.

She used blame her husband for her sadness and miser but actually she was lazy and complaining type which was never understood by herself only. 

This kind of women are there in every society who actually do not understand their self. And that is the reason why marriages collapse in many cases. 

So its the responsibility of every man and woman in marriage to understand their value and their contribution in the marriage rather than just blaming the partner.