Nowadays the lifestyle and the mindsets and the daily routines have evolved from the time past. And in every family  nowadays either both the partners are working or one of the partner is handling the household and other responsibilities single handedly. 

But the gross lifestyle is such that the office hours take at least 12 to 14 hours per day. And if both the persons are working then both do not get any chance talk to each other and communicate or interact. And the left out few hours , say about 10 hours goes in eating, sleeping, and social media and absolutely no time for any kind of other work. Somehow few people manage to hit the gym or exercise in between. And that's it.

But even during these small time of getting together in a family, people or couples or family members get time to quarrel or shout at each other and people even break up from each other.

So its very important to talk about the situation nowadays. We cannot really tolerate each other at all and just for the sake of a family life we feel the need of staying together. 

Otherwise why do we see so much of adjustment problems nowadays? That's because so far our parents have been adjusting with us, not we. And now that we are staying away from parents and we are having our own family, we are not ready enough to adjust with our new families.

Now these situations were there in previous years and its gonna stay forever if we do not change our focus towards leading a family life. 

Nowadays we focus only on problems and not on solving them. So what I have understood from my life is that when we know the need of our family and the nature of a certain family member, we should learn how to end the problem with that person and save situation and relation.

Now many a times the fault is from the other person but we have to find a solution because that person is not able to solve that. Then we single handedly have to solve the situation and not expect anything from the opponent because they are not so much able to handle those situations. 

But nowadays family time itself is very little so lets not spend that little time quarrelling or blaming others in a family.Today life itself is very sorted and conditioned for everyone and everybody wants peace and happiness from our families because during job or business we have to fight out the outside world. So the family has to deal with our vulnerable and soft and delicate side. So if that space becomes unhappy or troublesome for us then our life becomes unnecessarily tiring and burdensome. 

Now let me talk about the good and enterprising side of todays family life. Nowadays people are very fast in understanding the vitality of a problem and they want to get out of the disturbance and pain or trouble. So if one of the family members can handle the situation then the family can thrive. 

Another best thing about todays family life is that both the partners can dream and achieve dreams together. Nonmatter what happens the focus is on growing together and making each other happy. Sometimes trouble comes but today family life is not at all boring or frustrating because we can learn lots of things and get lots of achievements for us. And there is limitless achievements we can do at this era , if we have the right determination. 

Another thing is that we can study , do part time course, Do whatever we want to do even if we do not want to job . We are free to do homemaking and working with the proper mindset. Today couples and families  are ,more determined towards goals and achievements and they are focused on progress rather than looking into their past life. But today people do look at their past mistakes and grow from them. 

So overall todays family life's are more advanced and evolved than yester years and people are going through different exciting and better experiences in life , not just bitter ones, truly..👍👍