This topic is a way more serious topic than what I have so far written upon. I would straight away come to the cause of suicide, then I would talk about the way we can understand suicidal tendencies and some other very crucial points regarding suicide.
Causes of suicide
There can be many causes for suicide. But the basic point is people having suicidal tendencies are suddenly very sad and they want help from others. They might not directly ask for help but their conditions will certainly give you a clue that their life has become miserable for themselves. They might face a relationship issue of getting betrayed by their partners, they could face a financial shortage, they could not clear out their pending bank loan amount, they could suffer from an illness, they could not have work to carry out their lives or simply they could be very very lonely in their life. So whatever the reason is, the point is that these people are tired of getting ‘no solution to their problems’. They might have tried out many ways of overcoming their problems but they are helpless.
How do you detect a person having suicidal tendencies??
Whenever a person is sitting alone and not talking to others, when a person is telling his problems to others, when a person is drinking or smoking too much, when a person is not receiving calls for days, when a person is not connecting with others and many other points might also be there. So whenever a person is directly wanting for help, the best thing is to answer that person right there. If these people do not get the support of their friends and family, they really go for suicide. In todays world we have no time to listen to the worries of others. We are busy with our own problems. That is the reason suicide cases are increasing with days. We need to listen to the worries of others too. Where is that compassion within us??
Many a times a person might threaten for a suicide or say " I want to leave this world" . These words should not be taken lightly. These uttering of the word “ suicide” is itself an indication that something is wrong with the person.
Helping out person having suicidal tendencies
The initial thing that we can do to help the people out is to mentally support any person suffering from such tendencies. Some motivational talk ewe need to keep repeating to others because that works like miracle for many cases. Secondly if that person is showing some severity, then guiding them to a doctor is something that can really help.
Medication
Doctors these days tell you that there are best best medicines available in the market to stop people from committing suicide. If a person suffering from suicidal tendencies is immediately taken to a doctor then the right medicine can stop that person from any wrong step.
So lets be compassionate with every person around us. Lets not be selfish and mean . Lets try and help out persons who really need our help, our compassion and our motivation and support.