We have certain habits whichvwe all do in our every day life which can actually bring a lot of unhappiness in our lives.

This is about giving advice. Never ever give advice to an adult person if that person doesn't ask for it. 

This is actually in every one of us that we try spread our knowledge to everyone around us . And the reason behind this is that we want to get acknowledged by others in whatever way we can.

We want to get praised by others.But this has a condition. If you want to get acknowledgement from others then try to get it in a different way.

Try to help a person in need of your help and suggestion and who is wanting your help. If somebody is not wanting your help then just do not try to help him or her proactively. These does not help these days. 

If you go to help others without their need or want, it actually goes under noticed and it becomes wasted because nowadays people are changing and their mindsets are changing. They do not readily want to take help from others like before. 

Even my parents generation ,they could proactively help others by suggesting them some help. And others would gladly accept the help. But today you are criticized even when you go to help others. 

So its a good practice nowadays to practice the art of self composing.

Whenever there is a requirement of any suggestion then we can actually help others by sharing them our solutions in the form of suggestion. 

But other than that it's just not worth it.

I would give an example of certain case which could proof the authencity of what I have said today.

Soma ,Rina and Lisa were three ladies from the same students hostel. Once Soma had fallen sick so wanted some medical suggestion. Rinas father was a hospital doctor and Lisa's father was a small clinic doctor.

 Lisa suggested her dad's suggestion immediately to Soma. But Soma listened to her and then went to Rina for her father's suggestion. Rina was not so proactive to help Soma but Lisa was. But Soma wanted to  listen to the suggestion of Rina. So you see, people have their pre notion and beliefs so they do not want to get suggested by others. They make their own choice of taking suggestion. So everybody should suggest others only when the other party wants it from you.