All throughout my teenage and early adulthood I have been committing this mistake and this has led me to disastrous results. Today I would like to share this thing which prevented me from achieving greater goals in life…!!

I was into the habit of sharing my secrets with my friends, classmates, playmates, parents, siblings, grandparents, neighbor and even with strangers. I never used to understand what wrong I was doing to myself when I was sharing my secrets. As long I was a small child it was fun and people never used to take it seriously and that was fine. But as soon I became an adult, things changed, but I never stopped sharing my secrets…

For many days I could not understand, what was going wrong with me. then I realized that people were very excited to meet me and learn about my secrets. But as soon as I finished sharing the secrets, they used to loose all interest and never cared to show up and help me in my need. 

In college days, I used to require money apart from my own money to make something out of my creativity. I used top express that to my friends. At first they used to listen to it in an interested way, but soon they used to fly off. That's because they thought I would ask for money from them. 

One day one among my friends expressed this thing to me why I was being avoided. I realized my mistake immediately. I should have kept my secret with myself because none of my friends turned up to help me out. Moreover they rumored against me that I was a 'money borrower'.

I have heard about instances where people blackmail you with your secrets. I think even you have heard about it..

Even expressing others secrets to somebody else is a bad habit too. I think we should  build yourself so strong that we don't need to express any secrets to anyone. And there are very many secrets which we should not express to our very closed ones also in order to make our lives less complicated. We need to understand what to speak bout and what to keep it to ourselves. 

Even Lord Krishna said that you should never express your 'mystery' to others. Now here mystery means our very deep secrets. People can take you wrong and even ruin your life by getting to know your secrets. 

So be strong enough to  keep all secrets to yourself no matter how much your stomach aches….😊😊