There are many situations in life where we actually do not know how to react and these are those situations when we take all the wrong steps. So we need to understand the situation very well and control ourselves in such a way that we don't do anything wrong. 

Our problem is that we 'react' to every situation. We cannot stop ourselves from reacting to situations. So there lies our problem. 

I will cite you some such odd situations when we always react. 

Situation 1

Suppose both the husband and wife has returned from work . They are both very tired . So the husband asks the wife to give him a glass of water because he is tired. Now the wife is also equally tired. She gets annoyed by this request of her husband. And what we mostly do is that. We shout at each other and try to prove our tiredness more than our partner's. This create a negative environment in our house. 

The best thing to avoid such a negative environment is to show no reaction to the moment . When the husband asks for water, just tell him.." Please give me 1 minute time". Then you yourself take a glass of water from the kitchen and relax for 30 seconds. Then give the glass or bottle of water to your husband.

I know, its very easy to prescribe such a solution. But trust me its not 

“ worth it” , to get into a fight after a days work. Its better not to react, and take a wise step.

Situation 2

When your child is disturbing you for a long time and there's nobody at home to help you out, it becomes too tiring to handle the child politely. But these are very common situations, so if you get angry with your child, every time, you will loose your temper and situation can go worse. 

So please don't react to the situation. Leave the child on his/her own. But have an eye on them. When they find that you are not paying attention to them, they will slowly settle themselves on something and be quite. The more you pay attention to their tantrums, they will do it more.

So just don't react.

There are more such type of situations which gets on our nerves. So please remember not to react to those situations. Rather become more cool in such situations in order to enjoy a beautiful life.