Today we have come to such a position in the society when children are no more keenly interested in any festival. Be it any religion ,today,children are more practical minded. They are valuing their studies and projects and other extra curricular activities so much that they are forgetting the importance of festivals and community gathering or small get togethers too.
If we put the entire blame on the children or young kids then it will be very wrong. Today parents are very much "outcome focused",What I mean here is ,parents are very much interested in the results and the success of the children. They are no more encouraging the children to value the customs and different festivals or community programs.
This is because ,they cannot find anything 'instantly rewarding' from these festivals. So they indulge the children to focus on their studies, projects,online classes and also extra curricular activities. But where will these activities in studies find any justification if the children are not offered something to celebrate??????
Everything should be a celebration....!!!! Studies and other activities will find more effective results only if children are given some enjoyful moments or some celebrations to cherish ....!!!
Children can never feel very very pleased with studies if they are totally kept out of any celebrations.This is also not healthy..
Maybe the parents cannot see the positive effects of festivals and ceremonies instantly but they have a very slow and gradual effect on the mental development of a child....!!
So our society is facing a huge problem...!!
Firstly because of the pandemic which is also a global problem. But apart from that issue if parents do not indulge their children on enjoyment, celebrations,ceremonies and get togethers then a huge gap will be created in the child...!!
When the child grows up to be a man or woman, they would not like the company of other people and that is because the child has been very very lonely in the childhood period..
This is becoming a very huge problem these days so people have to observe this kind of delicate issues which is might cripple the society in the near future ..!!
Let all children enjoy their studies with a touch of festival, ceremonies, enjoyments ...!!!
Only parents and grandparents are not enough for the complete psychological development of a child.
The child needs a healthy environment, fun, festivities and ceremonies to develop as a complete human being..!!
And please ,dont blame the Pandemic for not attaining celebration.. We can safely take measures and still enjoy ourselves..
Let's not take Corona virus as an excuse,
If the society becomes crippled, itwould do greater harm than what Corona virus can do.....!!!
So let's be wise...!!