It may start with a little bit of humour, but if that takes a certain stage of development without understanding then that can actually ruin a relationship. 

We , especially young couples do not understand how toxic a relationship can become  if we do not show respect towards each other.

Case 1

This is the case of Rina who has married her childhood friend Vijay. Both of them share a very open and unrestricted type of relationship as far as communication is concerned. Both of them communicate with each other like any school mate. But the problem is that , sometimes they hurt each other by saying certain things which they do not want from each other. They unknowingly convey those sentences out of freeness and as a result their respect for each other as husband and wife gets disturbed. After many months of tolerance , when both of them consulted a relationship counselor, they told about their problems with each other. It had reached such complexity that they were not sharing bed with each other and their communication as a couple was no more. So when the relationship counselor met them, she understood that the problem was in their speech and dialogue with each other. Since they were friends, they could say anything and everything to each other without even showing a little bit of respect. This is what is making their relationship suffer. A certain form of restriction in our woirds and speech has to practiced when you are a couple and both of them has to give due respect to each other. 

Case 2

This is the case of amrita who is a working lady but her husband is a home-husband who looks after the children, homemaking and everything about family which Amrita has not to worry about. But the problem is with Amrita , since she is the sole earner of the family she takes the liberty to show disrespect towards her husband time and again. Before their marriage, it was a joint decision that Amrita would earn and her husband would look after the family. But in due course of time, Amrita seem to show disrespect towards her husband and their relationship became toxic. So this disrespect can actually break a relationship. 

Case3

 This is the case with Samaira. She works in a very reputed firm and her husband runs a small business. They have also a kid. They have bought a flat and car and the sole guaranter of the EMIs is Samaira because she has a stable job. 

So Samaira seems to poke her nose in every thing her husband does. Even if her husband parties with his boy-gang , Samaira has to interfere. This becomes in tolerable for her husband and he expresses this to his friends also. 

Samaira accounts for each penny spent y her husband and always complains about the shortcomings of her husband before his friends. This actually gives a lot of pain to her husband.

Soi in all three cases we see, that some kind of disrespect is responsible for breaking of a relationship. So we should give importance towards showing respect to our partners because respect can actually work miracles in a relationship.