I think divorce cases are tasking a momentum just like the Corona Virus. Isn't that so??

The studies will tell you that with increasing comfort, technological advances and better lifestyle and standard of living, we can hardly save the marriages.

We have advanced in all areas and that is the reason we want to prove our advancement by getting into separation or a divorce. 

I will cite you two examples, one from real life and one from reel-life and discuss in details about the topic I have mentioned…

My first question to all those who have separated is that, can you really be friends with your ex-husband or ex-wife? Then why did you separate? You could remain friends with your partner and be happy with the friendship in  marriage ? why do you have to separate and then be friends?😎

I know there are many cases where there are domestic violence leads to divorce. Those cases are not the concern today. Because those people would never go to make friends with their Ex partners. That is ..but obvious…!! So leaving out those cases….today we find many people getting divorced and then becoming the best of friends…

This is what  making me astonished. If I could not tolerate my partner in a marriage. If I had thousands of issues with my partner which led me to get a divorce, then its certain that I do not like my partner…Isn't that so??Or else I would not separate.

If you really love someone and you are friends with someone, you really cant just get a divorce and be friends after the divorce. This is the most funny things happening these days…!! And people are naming it…the coolest way of handling relationships…🤣🤣   Lol..!!😁😁

We all require to learn about our partners . That's quite obvious.. But after 20 years of observation, how can we divorce somebody? ( leaving out the domestic violence related cases) . 

Even if we divorce then how can we become friends again?? These are the real real… hypocrisies taking place in our society these days. People do not want to be together in the tough times but they will only chill out with you as an ex-partner and be friends after divorce , but wont take responsibilities of your extra baggage… Then, please tell me what kind of friends are you making, after a divorce with your ex?? Your so called enemies are better than this kind of friendship, and I am pretty sure about it. 

Case 1(real-life)

This is the Amir khan-Kiran Rao case. They are seen the most happy couple after their divorce. So their marriage for more than a decade has been all sufferings and acting, i guess..

Because these separated souls are so happy now that they have become the best friends to each other…Then why did you get married??

If Kiran Rao has become the best friend to Amir khan after the divorce then why is she taking the alimony?? Do we take money from our best friends?? This is very very funny….!! They were never really committed to each other, actually and if there would be real friendship then alimony or money would not come in between their friendship. 

But Kiran Rao is a smart lady, so she has calculated it well. She calls this divorce as a great friendship. And why not?? Who would have imagined that a divorce could earn Kiran such a huge money?? So why to called Amir an enemy…A man with such a lot of money for his ex-wife cannot be called an enemy… Sorry.. Kiran is not that unsmart…as a woman.

And these are the reason why even after divorce, the ex-partners are the sweetest friends. Because we all need money, we need someone who would at least listen to your pain (if not be in the marriage) … And this solace is actually the thing that makes the couple as the best friend after the divorce….. But only this much…should be your expectation..!!

Because this is conditional friendship….if you agree you can remain friends…or else…" Bhaar  mein jao"😁

So its better to play smart like Kiran Rao and other ladies these days, following her..👍

Case 2( Reel-life)

I came across a web series called “ KEHNE KO HUMSAFAR HAIN” where the husband suddenly realizes after twenty years of marriage and with two grown up daughters, that  his marriage was a wrong choice. Then he falls in love with the poetic and artistic mentality  of his girlfriend. 

My question is…If the husband had already understood that their was nothing left in the marriage then why to plan for kids and be together for twenty long years. He could have divorced the wife much earlier and spared the wife from giving birth to 2 kids and being a good housewife. If the wife would have got a divorce one or two years after the marriage, then she would be young enough to get married or date someone else? The wife was totally committed to the husband and could not understand her fault..

Then why to cheat a so good wife?? The husband waited for his girlfriend for twenty long years.. after getting babies and well maintained social prestige given by her good wife, and then one day he divorced her suddenly. 

Thereafter, the husband tells the wife that they would be friends forever and he would be there for her in every need.

Like this is something…like a real cunning husband….The husband is a real cunning one…!! The best term to define such kind of people scattered in the society.

And trust me, no friendship actually exists after the divorce. These people only act out like friends.  I think women or men getting rejected from their partners and going for a mutual divorce should have their self respect…and should never keep any contact with their Ex-s  and refuse their alimony. 

I know this is hard for most of the people, but in middle class families or in lower classes, this kind of self respect is very common and they are far more dignifies , as to not accept anything from their Ex's.

The upper class people have the least respect for themselves and keep friendship even after rejection… And they need smart money… So alimony is fine for them…!!

And these kind of people prove to be “cool” by declaring their divorce as a new friendship.. 

Are they really "cool" or just a “ fool”??? that is to be reflected upon…!!!