There are many of us who do not feel comfortable even amongst our friends , relatives, neighbors and family…

Have you thought why we feel so much left alone even when people  talk to us, share drink and food with us, laugh and enjoy with us??

What is the reason that even when our friends throw a party we are left alone??

Why are we feeling friendless when we are surrounded by friends…

Lets just try to find out..

Reason 1

Many times our friends and relatives point out our shortcomings in front of everybody in the gathering, which might be true or false…that's a different question…but this sudden revelation makes us awfully embarrassed . Some of us don't mind so much, but most of us do not take it in good humor. This makes us feel isolated and creates a distance even among friends and family gathering.

Reason 2

Sometimes we might not do well in a exam, or not earning much money, or doing a low profile job, leading a mediocre lifestyle which is our choice and our look out absolutely. But when we are among friends or family who discuss about their high lifestyle and their cars and riches.. just to create their own importance, it is hurting.

May be these type of people do not intentionally want to heart you, they are just interested to display their achievements…but we are left alone because compared to them, we have nothing…to boast about.

So this is another reason which makes us feel lonely in a crowded party of friends…

Reason 3

Sometimes we get invitation from friends who only talk about illness and shortcomings and negative side of their life. This also makes us feel isolated because may be, we are trying to get relaxed with our friends and they are only creating a negative environment for us.,

Once again they, might not be intentionally doing this things. But our mind gets a negative vibe which makes us feel very uncomfortable in the company.

Reason 4

Many a times, our thought process do not match with our friends. We might be very creative and innovative, but our friends might not have any thing to share. This is obviously not their fault.. They might not have that exposure or thinking capacity like us…but since our mental wavelength do not match…. we are left alone….!!

Reason 5

Many a times, there are friends who disturbs our mental calmness and peace. They call you thousand time's in a day, they meet with you, they eat with you and they share all their problems with you..

But you are not comfortable in their company and left alone…

The reason behind such situation is that the friend of yours do not listen to your problems and what you have to say…They are only interested in their life and want to derive the mental relaxation from you….That's very irritating because. You don't get to share your feelings and matters  and you don't get to derive relaxation in such meetings…So you cannot readily connect with such kind of friends…

So there are many reasons why we feel lonely even amongst our friends and family…So the best thing is to make a group of friends who would actually track you and your mind  and have the same wavelength. 

but surely avoiding the entire world and being only with selected few is no solution…

Its good to mix with every sort of people but to go for help and relaxation to the selected few….!!!!