New environment sometimes makes you realize that u might not belong here.new things new lifestyles new people give you nervousness about your self and that makes you uncomfortable to communicate with others and that is how you started think your self lesser.
As usual people love to talk about their achievement of their life so that they can get a image in the society and which is quite normal, because that is where they have grown up. And listening to these people we get to know that were we actually are.
A boy who is 18 year old just has finished his junior year of college and went to another city for his further studies, he steps somewhere people have different lifestyle, different language, different mind set and that is makes him nervous of himself to be stand for himself and communicate. He start to think that he does not belong here and he wont be able to survive here because he never been out of his comfort area. BUT NO
To avoid this, I wanna tell to all those boys and girls who are somewhat introvert and get confused about how to get involved and stand and be better to them self, here is are some things i wanna tell you…..
Firstly, Don't think that you are nothing in front of them or you are not capable for anything. You have to understand that the person you are is because you were living in another environment. so this new environment is your next step towards something new in your life because life is so short to experience everything.
Secondly, Don't get overwhelmed with the others achievement, just think that like i can do it its my GOOD LUCK to learn it here, and go forward to make your past life your strength because this is the extra activity you are adding it in your life.
Make your weakness your strength, talk about your weakness openly with a smile on your face, don't let others to attack your weakness to make you sad because if u show that this is my weakness and I am not strong enough to fight with it then people will hunt you down with it and think of you with their pity. Make sure you get courage to talk about it and to let them know that it wont affect me.
LANGUAGE: It should not be your barrier its opportunity to learn new language. Its not like you going to forget your mother tongue if you learn it. It is just new thing you will adapt for make your life easy.
Next try to analyze what are the things that will be beneficial to you for your future. Don't hesitate because its just a needs of your future and make sure you prioritize them first.
New adaption: For example, Changing your lifestyle: If you think that new lifestyle is good thing to adapt, you should surely go for it. Don't just be in you comfort area throughout your life.You should change yourself now and then because changes gives you refreshment for something new.
The more you stay put in your comfort area that more you looses chances to adapt something new and which surely makes you less need-able person.
Build to look into positive thoughts will help you to make decision easily.
Try to communicate with more people. Even if you are introvert person, challenge yourself to be extrovert when its needed. Being in introvert is not the bad thing, its just different characteristics of behavior. To start a conversation you have to go and pick up a line first.You cant just seat at one spot and wait for others to come to you and make you friend, its not the good attitude if you want to mix up to your surrounding.
life is not easy for even a single person but choosing something which is good for us leads to explore the world around you.be a self encouragement for your self that when you look into your past you get more encouragement to achieve your goal for future.
to all these things you just have to learn only three words and those are
NEVER GIVE UP……….
