Hello bloggers,

        What comes to your mind when you hear word Independence? India's Independence May be ,right? But no that's not what I am talking about , I am rather talking about our own Independence. Do you really feel that you are Independent?

There are almost 80% of women still dependent on their husband for their financial needs .I can understand that for some girls out their it is not possible to work or they may be not interested in working. But do you ever feel secured about yourself ? I don't think so .Girls you need to be dependent on just yourself for your financial needs no matter who your husband is or who is your father or brother that does not matter . You will have to stand on your own two feet.

There is nothing like your first paycheck or spending your hard earned money to pamper yourself or do anything. You will never be in that phase of insecurity where you will lose your own self esteem. And will have to look up to someone whenever you require money.

Being Independent does not mean just earning money but, it also includes being emotionally independent. Not depending on someone for your feelings. Let me ask you a question ,'If you are are only not emotionally independent or if you are only not happy with yourself how are you going to make other happy?'

I am not saying that just stay away from others and be in your own cocoon , But what I  mean to say that, Be satisfied with your own self. Don't let any third person control how you should feel. If you are mentally Independent nothing can break you ever. If you find someone's presence peaceful feel it for sure, But don't start hazing around them for that feeling.

Trust me guys when you will become mentally independent you will be more than happy when your loved ones are around you and you will still be happy when they are not around. Start enjoying your own company as I always say.

Let me tell you a fact. Most of the women don't stand up for their own rights and still be in a abusive relationship for years because they are not independent . Nor mentally ,Nor financially. Stand up girls ,Roll up your sleeves and think of yourself rather than thinking of someone else first. Because if you will be mentally stable and if you will manage to be yourself ,then only you will be able to make others happy an satisfied. Otherwise you will only seek for happiness from others and will end up being disappointed.

That's it buddies just wanted to put this out clear to all my sisters that be your own boss and don't let anyone sit on the driver's seat .Because it's only your right to drive it the way you want. And to my guy friends ,Let start doing a little more efforts to understand girls because they are not complicated but they are just a mystery that you can only solve by being generous and by being respective towards women.

“GIRLS DON'T NEED YOUR CAR AND MONEY ,THEY JUST WANT A MAN WHO  CAN RESPECT THEM.”

THANK YOU.