hello everyone I hope you are all doing good. I think all of you must have realized how much you have changed for past few years or after a heartbreak. We all go through this at some point of our life. Some of us get betrayed, some of us get worst friends, or are in a bad relationship. Worst case scenario some people even face family issues which change them. 

Yesterday I was just sitting and then something occurred to me. How little I get effected with other people in my life. To tell you the truth I am very sensitive and emotional. I used to think so much about people when I talk to them that what they are going to think about me or how I am being presented in front of them, do they think I am a good person. And for this particular reason I never got into a fight with my friends. Even if it was their fault I was the one to say sorry no matter what just so things don't get bitter between us. Then you it must have ended right. I was angry at myself for trusting some snakes  in my life. And then my best friend turned out to be one of them. I wish I could tell you her name so that you will never trust a person who talks sweetly not at least  her cause she is a real good liar. I mean the best. Earlier I used to drain my energy on thinking why the hell she is like this, why I am with her etc. etc. When she used to lie to me about anything I started cross questioning her, be angry at her and god knows what. Sooner it stopped affecting me. I listen to her lies and then pretend that I believe on her. 

May be people around me still thinks that I am the same person but only I can see my change and I am so happy about it. Detachment is a gift which you can give yourself after a lot of practice. You should be detached from any relationship in this world. I am not saying your family because that is the first priceless gift from god. But other than that you should trust no one. end you expectations. Embrace the change you achieve. Changes will make you a better person.