Swami mukundananda says about it .

For your relationship to be successful  with friends, colleagues, relatives and family members ,you need to know how to maintain and nurture them. 😊

     👉Look on a relationship as a bank account in which you make deposits and can do withdrawals. if the withdrawals become  an excess, The account goes into overdraw. So it is with relationship as well.✨

     👉After that he is telling a story!

            “I was once at the Delhi airport,The  gentleman  in front of me, started berating the check -in clerk. Now the clerk  was responding politely ,but the gentleman's temper kept on to increase and the more he shouted. More gently the clerk responded. finally, when this person left, i asked the check in clerk,"I am extremely impressed. for no fault of yours , he was chiding you. How did you maintain your calm?. The clerk said,” it's a small matter. His ticket is cut to Chennai. Where he will be flying. I am going to ensure his luggage flys to Andaman and Nicobar". The mistake the person had made was in a relationship where he had never deposited. The mistake the person had made was in a relationship where he had never deposited ,he was making withdrawals,and that had lead to a rupture . So what are deposits and withdrawals in relationships? when we express affection by smilling, praising, supporting, adjusting and understanding , consider that as a deposit in the relationship. And when we behave negatively by criticizing, finding fault, ignoring, forcing people against their will,this is a withdrawal.

✓some times withdrawals are necessary. like for example, between parents and children , parents do need to find fault. do need to insist the children behave in one way and not in the other. But to ensure that the child responds positively, there must be constant deposits, and that is what people forget to do.

Golden rules for living your best life ,has to say that ,

        ✨" Realize that relationships require                        efforts. Do you remember the                                last time you complimented your                        spouse ? How often did  you.                                    spend 1-on-1 exclusive time with                        your children?When is the last                              you appreciated your relatives                               or c ?

     Remember the 5:1 ratio ,.                               Before you pull them up for                                     their mistakes .😊

✓Build the relationship accounts and enhance the deposits. Build the relationship accounts and enhance the deposits.

✓Adorn your dealings with praises , smiling and genuine concern. That will reduce strain and make your important relationship robust.

✓It will allow for unpleasant withdrawals to be absorbed without any damage. 

           😊This is the emotional Bank account                    formula in bank account formula                        for successful relationship. ✨

                      Thank you ….❤️