Have you ever taken a moment to reflect on how many internal and external voices influence our decision-making? It's fascinating to think about how our thoughts and actions can be influenced by so many different factors.

It is a well-known fact that the opinions of others can significantly affect our decision-making process. While not everyone may be affected by it, most of us tend to listen to what others have to say and base our decisions on their opinions rather than our own. This is because we are concerned about how our decisions will be perceived by others. We often rely more on the opinions of others rather than our own thoughts, which can hinder our ability to make independent decisions.

For example, let's say you purchase a dress that you really like. Afterwards, you might seek the opinion of your friends or family members regarding how the dress looks on you. Depending on their response, your perspective may shift. If they say the dress looks good on you, you will be content with your choice. However, if they comment that the color does not suit you, you may reconsider your decision and feel less satisfied than before.

Have you ever noticed that when you're faced with a decision, you start to imagine all the possible outcomes and scenarios? And have you also noticed that many of these scenarios are based on what other people might think of you? As humans, we naturally seek approval and acceptance from others. We want to be liked and appreciated by our peers. However, when it comes to making the "right choice", we often let our decision be influenced by what others might think or believe to be right. The truth is, we all make mistakes and bad choices from time to time. But when we rely too heavily on what others think instead of our own values, we increase the likelihood of making a bad decision.

Remember that other’s opinions are based on their own limitations and limiting beliefs – they are not the experts on what is right for you. Relying on someone else to make a decision for you diminishes your own power and confidence in your abilities. So if you are feeling as though you are not living the life you were meant to, stop allowing others to make your decisions. Take a stance and stand up for yourself. Choose your own path and be prepared to accept any consequence, good or bad, that this might involve. You can be the person you truly want to be by taking action, starting today.