Published Oct 11, 2020
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To Love Or Not To Love?

Published Oct 11, 2020
2 mins read
439 words

The question of the eternity! To love or not to love? We often ask this question to ourselves (I know you agree, don't lie to yourself !), now with this question comes insecurity too (and here your subconscious mind agrees again), such as, am I not good enough? Is my skin too dark or teeth crooked? May be it is the way I speak, may be I come out to be too outspoken? Honestly, there are endless possible ways and questions to put yourself in a position where you start hating yourselves. That my friend is not a solution to your problems. You know what? Let's cut to the chase, all your problems will never exist if you solve the first question. “TO LOVE OR NOT TO LOVE?” , if you love someone dearly, and they love you in return, that question will never arrive. Also, if that question arrives, you always choose NOT TO LOVE ! Trust me it saves a lot of trouble. 

Well, now if you have read it till this far, I hope you will be interested in what actually happened that I came to this conclusion. Between all me feeling of love, betrayal and anger, LIFE happened. Do me a favor , will you? Never ask yourself “WHY DID HE BREAK MY HEART?” . He broke your heart because he wanted to. 

He knew better than you did at that time.

My guy was actually good at pretending that he had a deep personality. He always said, that I trust people really easily. He also said that I should stop doing that. What I didn't know that the advice applied to him as well. That I should be trusting him too. I guess, I was too late at realizing that. Hey, Hey!! Don't you dare feel pity on me! I learned a lot of things in the process of dealing with a heartbreak, and my love, you will learn too. Because none of us are immune to a heartbreak, and spoiler alert, it hurts like a bitch!

Good news is, you will get through it. Everybody has a different clock, you might take a day or a month or a year to move, and in the end  it will be worth it. You know why will it be worth it? Because at the end of the story  there is a knight in shining armour waiting to sweep you off your feet. That's when you choose TO LOVE and to continue loving till death to you part.

If you read it till here, I hope you enjoyed it. Please follow for more such content. XoXo

 

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deva93 10/13/20, 2:06 PM
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Interesting read!!
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anu.ghosh 10/13/20, 2:51 PM
Thank you so much Devsena
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