What is the first thought that flashes before you when you hear the word perfect? What is perfect according to you??
No, not the perfect society demands .. what is your definition of perfect?
Most of you will say nothing/nobody is perfect .We all hear this very frequently…still there is times when we look at someone ( might be someone you have known for a long time or someone you have recently met) and the only word we can think of to define them is 'perfect'..and the same person might look at you and think of you the same .. you might be their kind of perfect.
I think it is the EYES with the ability to see beauty in people and things that are perfect..
I think EVERYONE is perfect.
The people that were and are around,the people whom you call “your people” .. they are who make you perfect …they are the ones that shape you into who you are.
Your past , your present , your experiences does not matter good or bad , your blemishes ,your imperfections , waking up everyday and giving your best even when things are worst and all hope is lost , giving your brightest smile to the little kid on the bus or the subway despite the hurt you have been carrying, finding happiness in the tiniest things around you , standing up taller than ever even after falling hard so many times ,not letting you bad times consume the best of you and always trying you best, trying to be your best version , being YOU , loving and caring and supportive and kind YOU , is WHAT makes you perfect.
YOU CREATE YOUR OWN PERFECT.
So why go changing yourself for other people..why wear someone else's skin when you are not comfortable in it .. just because you are afraid of not being accepted by the society..? Why go killing your happiness when you can be the reason of your own happiness..stand in front of the mirror ,look at yourself naked ,not just without clothes naked but on emotional level naked ,the person you see is perfect … if you want to change for better …change into your definition of perfect.. change into someone you like to see yourself as..
Because no matter what you do or what you become there will always be people who are unsatisfied with you.. why not be satisfied with your own self..and there is always room for becoming better..
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