In our life, we are facing problems sometimes it's very big and sometimes it's too small right? and we are not all time responsible for every problem but sometimes we are,  we don't accept and easily blam other people. Have we ever think is it good for ourselves?

as per my experience, it's not good for ourselves because When we blame others we give up our power to grow. Blaming is not the solution to any problem, if we do not accept our truth then we didn't find the solution to a problem and will never learn why problems come our way. 

In our life, if we didn't succeed so we start blaming money, family, school, college, job, and even society or gov which is far away from us right? but we do not start blaming from self, right? we know these all are related to ourselves first but all time we blame others.

Instead, Blame others if we realize that everything Springs only from ourselves, We will get Learn Both Peace and Joy :)

Let me tell you a small story, a guy came home after a long time and his father asked him about marriage, he said - does not have any problem in arrange marriage but wants to marry a girl who is doing gov job. His father said  - ok. and her family was also interested because that boy is also doing gov job.

In starting everything was going fine before marriage but after marriage things going worse. because of the job, they can't live in one place, and their relationship ruining. somewhere their thoughts do not match, because they haven't ever focused their personal understanding for selection to partner, instead they focused their gov jobs. So Who is responsible for their relationship? 

of course Both boy and girl but if they blame their family so that was meaningless Because their decision ruins their life, not any family member's personal life. Also here Blaming is not a solution that everyone did for temporary peace and happiness. 

Also when we blame other people, that we affect other people's lives and make them sad and negative. and Blaming others for our mistakes we are powerless to change your life, Taking responsibility for our mistakes gives us the power to change your life.

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