Published Dec 10, 2021
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Being Alone- An Self Understanding

Published Dec 10, 2021
2 mins read
411 words

We all tend to feel alone which we think is a kind of bad thing. Before into the topic I would like to entitle a preach on Being Alone and Loneliness. Alone is the feeling of overwhelming love , being great with self love and happiness. Rather the loneliness could be the absence of mind feeling bit low with pain and depression.

Most of the time we tend to feel alone and spend their own time with themselves. For example when we start to fill the bucket of water , we can only start from bottom there is no option (We can't fill from top). Likewise The actual self start initially at bottom parts of our own self and thoughts to some extent.  In case of overflow of water it is like the depression , pain or pressure with feeling of happiness and then it becomes an habit to be urself. 

When there given an option to reframe and restructure past and hurtful experiences grab the opportunity to erase and ease the way to make positive beginning.  Try to question yourself with the qualities of you that you like and pursue the way to deal with it. Permit yourselves to enjoy being alone with your favorite you. There can be no better friend than you to understand, make love, motivate and a treasure yourself with great memories.

The way you judge yourself matters a lot. Now-a -days judging the persons behaviour has become stigma in many relationship which has both good and bad impact. I like to start saying to yourself that “ You can and Don't judge yourself for being your own self”. The more gentle and kinder you are with you makes you a enriched with satisfaction of yourself. You are the only better company for you as better partner.

In my experience the bestest part is" Not only the presence of loved ones make you feel better their opinion, care , affection and behaviour matters to you". But being alone can be seen in different perspective the more keen and the happiest way is “ Start to add value to yourself and take  time for your wishes , preferences , needs, memories and design your behaviour”. 

I would end this with “ Be ready for struggle within you and start to accept your mistakes . Being a loser makes you to work with your solitude. Appreciate and lable you with the best in you. You are the most important in your life”.

Success is your way!!

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##thriveforchange
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sheetal.thakur 12/11/21, 7:43 AM
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thulasiram.ravi 12/11/21, 12:56 PM
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