hi friends,

life is full of surprises and as they say"life happens when you are busy making other plans",no matter how definite and precise your planning goes life doesn't goes the way you want at times.

Fate ,destiny,karma call what ever ,they play a very vital and unavoidable role in our lives,some may disagree and would say that efforts make it happen,and hard work pays all that,but deep down we all know everything pays when the time is in our favor,when your destiny allows it to happen other wise no matter how hard you try,how much efforts and wisdom you put in things don't work out ,you just don't know ,what went wrong.things just don't fall in our way,those are the hard times we all come across in our lives,the lows of life.so when the the situation is not really in our hands and we really don't know what to do about it ,just relax and leave it on the time and trust the almighty ,for he is there to mend anything and everything.Be calm and composite,don't panic and take hasty decisions,just focus on what you are left with and what is gonna stay.Other then this there is one thing where most people make mistake i.e

"anticipation",people often take decision in assumptions and anticipation that things will change in future ,you are already facing troubles and you don't know when this time will get over ,so whats the point taking decisions which are based on future and future good times,.uncertainty will always haunt you,and will make you consider your steps,so just stay tight and leave it on time ,don't be hard on your self and blame yourself for the time you are facing ,just  ,take it easy,not everything is in your hand,

no matter how hard  you will try ,things will get better in its own course of time ,so no point in being over pushing yourself and bearing all the stress,tensions and troubles,be optimistic but accepting the reality.I'm not asking to give up,or stop trying at all.

I'm just asking to be gentle towards yourself and not let stress and tensions take you for a ride and results in deeper troubles.

just relax and let time heals things its way.