What is self love ? How it's defined ? How it develops ? And is it important ? Self love is simply love for oneself , but is it that simple . Can we relate to it. Although it is the most important form of love and most required yet we lack it. Self love is not being self centred. It's about being yourself . It's being comfortable with yourself . Not giving so much to other's that you lose yourself. Being strong enough to deny others right over yourself . It's about doing what makes you happy . It's about choosing yourself . It's about respecting yourself.

Sometimes we grow in a family where giving is preached . But is it justified . If we look at some people in our life who has always been giving in lives , do we feel peity or proud . No , not every time we are proud . Most of the time we feel bad to see them in a miserable and vulnerable state . Have you ever seen or heard a over caring  and a selfless mother who gives her everything to  a child just to make her child happy and while he grows up , the child is constantly burdened by choices of that mother who sacrificed dreams just to be fulfilled by her child who is forced to sacrifice his own dreams.Sometimes giving is not what we think but giving is respecting the dreams ,hard work ,passion and sacrifice of others. If that mother who had just scarified her dream would delay it , rather both the dreams would be achievable . Life would be a happy place is self love was preached . Self love doesn't make you rude or impolite , it makes you more kind and respectful to others .

If a mother or a father choose to bring a life in their lives , why not preach and teach self love. Because someone has rightly said, “ How you love yourself is how you teach other's to love you.” Self love is different to everyone yet the feeling is same .

Self love gives you a vision to life . It makes you realise the worth of life and how you value people in your lives. Self love gives you an effortless happiness that has no limits. It shapes you as what has shaped you .  If everyone acknowledge the self love  life would be much easier .

To me self love is being what you are . How comfortable you are with your own choices . How your life defines you not how others define you .

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