Hey everyone……first of all welcome to my blog, I hope you all are doing great. So, it's actually been a month I haven't write anything, because seriously speaking I was very puzzled in my own thoughts and I didn't get time to even think about writing. M sorry for that.
Ummm…… today I was thinking that why we want ourselves to satisfy each and every person we know. I mean you really can't satisfy everyone, you can't make everyone happy . Everybody is responsible for their happiness, so it's thier fault if they are not happy with you. Unless or until if you haven't hurt them intentionally, it's ok to go for what you want, for your happiness.
I believe, god has made us all different the motive of our life's is also different. So why please everyone, why you let yourself be affected if they are not happy with you. If you are happy with yourself…… then no one matters.
There is a saying “𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗴𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗰𝗹𝗶𝗺𝗯 𝘂𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗮𝗱𝗱𝗲𝗿, 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗺 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗲𝗶𝘃𝗲” . Even if you will be on top of the world, there will always be someone who will never be happy with you or for you.
So, don't get bother by this. It's you, who always matter and “𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵. 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴. 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝘂𝗻𝗿𝗶𝘀𝗲. 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗱𝗮𝘆 ”. I have experienced this… . When the feeling of bothering comes up, it never come alone it will end with a lot of Overthinking and as a result you will have sleepless nights.
Don't give up on yourself, you are enough remember that . Work on yourself for your satisfaction not for anybody else. Your parents and your loved once are the only people for whom you have to do something, whose satisfaction matters. And at the end when you will be happy the people who you love and who loves will be happy, their will be happiness, m not talking about normal or general happiness. A happiness which will give warmth and comfort to your heart, which will let you be at ease and which will let you sleep like a baby.
So, think about that. Don't let yourself get hurt by what other think for you. Because you are only one, and you are only for you. Take care, and I will try to write more often I promise. Till then be the person you are and keep going for the person you want to be, just for yourself.
Bye❤ Adiiti