Hey!
You know…… we all know regretting is the most painful things but we still do things on which we regret later. And rather than taking it as an experience, we just start the blame game and we resent it through out our lives.
I am not saying, that we all are perfect. We all going to do something which we will regret in the future, or may be there will be also a regret where you will regret about not giving a shot.
Stuff happens, that's what life is! But what is the point of keep regretting? You don't have time machine to go back in time and fix it. What we have is , to experience and learn from our mistakes . The most annoying part of regretting is just to clarify ourselves in our eyes we start the blame game, we start to blame others. You know, when we resent someone! No one is pathetic more than us. And it happens with everyone…… you why I am here talking about all these stuff? Because, it happened with me also if I am giving you an advise it doesn't mean I am perfect it's just because I don't want anyone else to repeat my mistakes. Most of the times I was the who regretted about not doing anything when I was able to. But, then of course it's the water who has spilled. Whatever i will try it will not going get fix it. So, isn't it better to take it as experience and learn from it, and made a promise to yourself that you will never do that mistake again.
I learned it, and I am glad I learned it before turning to 18 . I remember my sister and my teacher ( favorite one) told me the same thing, that “YOU CAN'T BE ALWAYS PERFECT, YOU ARE A HUMAN NOT A MACHINE . YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE MISTAKES AND WILL CRY AND REGRET ABOUT IT, BUT INSTEAD OF CRYING AND RESENTING TRY TO LEARN AND HAVE A EXPERIENCE ABOUT MAKING A MISTAKE. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME AND MOVE ON ”.
I applied it, it was hard in the beginning but it was and it is still one of the best decision I have made. And here I am, sharing my life experience.
I hope it will help you out in overcoming most of your regrets. Take care and let me know if it worked out for you or what you have done to overcome it.
Till then, bye❣️ •ADITI