You actually don't need a person to love the same way you loved them. You have to accept the fact that-

You can't make anyone to like you.

You can't make anyone to love you.

You can't make anyone to adore you.

You can't make anyone to respect you.

You can't make anyone to care for you.

You can't make them the person you are.

You can't show them how good you are.

Because at the end of the day, they will judge you according to their own mindset. That's why people have differences- some are good and some just can't accept themselves so they make mistakes by finding faults in other people. They judge because they want to feel inferior. This is really a shameful act.

People tends to judge so easily-

Without actually knowing the other person. 

Without knowing the other side's story.

Without knowing that what others are going through or how they became like this.

Without knowing their truth.

We all are soft when it comes to us but we often do blunders or become harsh when the other person is facing the same situation too. Don't judge so quickly as you don't know what battles are they fighting in their real lives. Already it's being hard on them so don't make it harder. You really don't know how terrible one feels when anyone judges. It completely shatters them. 

 Also, if someone is nice to you doesn't mean-

You have got the right to judge others. 

You have got the right to talk bad about anyone.

You have got the right to pass comments.

You have got the right to disrespect them.

As Jesus said- “JUDGE NOT, LEST YOU BE JUDGED". It simply means that why to waste your precious time judging others when you yourself have plenty of problems to deal with. Just remember one thing in your mind that you are the best. Let no one else decide to tell you what's good and what's bad in you. You know your worth and that's important. Not everyone matters. 

Better be kind to everyone around you. Shower your kindness and love. If you can't help anyone, do listen their part of story, their struggles and their truth. This can be your greatest help. Please stop Judging also.