Mark my words you are going to thank me after reading this.

I have met numbers of girls. I observed a lot about female psychology and their needs. Before i tell you the truth, tell me what according to you is a good impression in front of a girl?

Six pack abs, big chest, extra strong perfume, good jacket, a car, beard, and MONEY?

Right?

This is what most indian men have perspective about female psychology. This is why we indian men are so bad at maintaining relationships. This is why indian girls complaint a lot about men because we really suck at impressing females. A short impression can be achieved by cars, biceps or showing strength. But a long-lasting impression is so rare these days. 

What is that key to impression?

Presenting yourself is the best way.

That's it.

["Hey Abhishek, please don't tell us this old method. Modern girls are not looking for such things now. They want money and looks. This is it. You don't have any knowledge about females. They have this hunger for Money, Power, Looks, and S*x"]  .WRONG.

Same thoughts? This is not your mistake, this is what society keeps telling you from the day you started looking for such answers.

I have met numbers of girls and i can bet on this things that nothing impresses a girl more than your true self. The first and foremost rule of impressing someone is being what you really are. You're are just unaware about the magic of real you. Now i'll tell you why.

You are magical. You have most of the things a girl is looking for. You have confidence (you have, it is just hidden), good thoughts, sense of humor, career goals, and determination to get them, masculinity, love to share and ability to lead. Don't underestimate yourself because you are a master creation.

Then where are you lacking?

All such quality are hidden because you focus more on impressing the opposite gender. This is where the whole game gets messed up. You are messed up with the thought of impressing her. You are messed up with the society's view-point. You are trying to convert into that guy who runs according to society and according to society girls need S*X, MONEY and CAR.

Now, for a minute imagine yourself in a situation where you are going on a date with your dream girl. Keep it light, it's not your interview, it is not your marriage date, just a casual date to make the other gender happy. A date to let her know what is life for you, what is happiness for you, a date to let her feel the time and enjoy. A date where she wants to know you, where she wants to feel special. 

Focus on presenting yourself to make her feel good, don't go to impress her because impression will come automatically. Keep it light. Be the real you. She is looking for the time when you let her feel the real happiness, the time when you make her feel special, the time when she gets to know about your perspectives. She will be attracted to your real self, she will love to get such things again because giving someone happiness, joy, or letting someone know different sides of life is not easy and is literally so rare. 

Right?

Now she is already attracted to you because you have presented yourself in a good way, you have made her feel happy, you have made her feel the worth of time, you made her feel special in that slot of hours. 

Impression? Done? Is it that hard? No, right? So be the real you. This where the magic happens.

Many people does it the different way but this is one of the golden way to be with the person whom you love.

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