As Indians we have this habit of giving free advice to anyone ,anywhere. Most of these advices that you get in your daily life either comes from your parents, relatives, mentors or friends. But do you know what the problem is? Most of these will stand by you if the results are right but have you ever seen anyone around when you failed? You must have noticed they put all the blame on you for not following the plans properly but if the situation is reversed and you succeed they will not even take a minute to take all the credit. So, the point of telling you all this is that whatever the result is either success or failure it's you who has to work,put efforts,succeed or suffer.Now,let me tell you 10 other such things or lessons that no one tells and many people learn these late in life.Let's go:)

1. Life is all about being neutral : If you want to protect your mental peace then try not to live in extremes ,never be very happy about your success or be very sad because of failures try to take both as a part of a bigger plan.
2. Failure is better than easy success: Over the period of last 4-5 years you must have seen many people gain instant fame but do you know where they are now?
3. Arrogance and Confidence are two different things: Arrogance is assuming that you are always right ,while confidence is accepting that your faults with willingness to improve.
4. Never Expect anything from anyone: Your sadness doesn't comes from failures but from the expectation to succeed. It implies in the case of people too. Even if you helped someone a 1000 times don't expect them to behave the same when you are in trouble.
5. Work hard in Silence: Never talk about your dreams and ambitions to anyone, people these days not only steal dreams but also crush your plans to achieve them.
6. Be Kind: I know that the world is a cruel place but having a little compassion or empathy will always differentiate.Even if no one notices,God and Nature will.
7. Spend some time with yourself: I know you have studies,job, and many other responsibilities but don't ignore yourself for them.One day if everything and everyone disappears then it will be your inner strength and self- belief that will help you. If you don't manage to go on a solo date with yourself , then learn to do so!