Is it right to love someone who is already in a relationship? Let me ask you a question.You like this man.He was there with you the whole time. You always felt a warmth of safe place in him. And slowly start to fall in love with him hardly. But he won't be yours because he is already someone's everything. Do you think it is inappropriate to love someone even if you don't have a chance?
I think its completely okay to say how much you love them even if you don't stand a chance unless you create problems in their relationship. But sometimes you might feel like a burden to him. This unrequited love always hurts so much that you might feel that numbness all over your body. From that moment, you start to hate them. Then the very next day, when everything fall back to normal, you fall hardly for him a little more than yesterday. That's where the beauty lies. Everyday it gets deeper and deeper.
No matter how hard you try to settle down in your fate, sometimes the facts hit you harder than you think. You start to feel the sadness in your bones as you think it as your misfortune. You will keep asking this question to yourself over and over again. โWhy the hell did I fall for him if he was not meant for me?โ.
At the same time it feels nice to have someone to have crush on. You start to dwell into them more. His favourite song, place, food, people and so on. Isn't nice to have something to keep us excited when you are drowning in your own messed up life?
You see them as a part of your soul. A kinda soulmate who is not meant for you. You only have the right to stay beside him when he needs a shoulder and to give him everything by your heart. Not every soulmates come together right? We try to make one of them as our soulmate.
So, have the courage to let him know that you loves him. Don't expect it to turn good as your wish. Just tell him. Who knows, may be you'll end up with that same person. I know it is going to be hard. But it is still worth it. Go for it. Take a chance.