As a girl life is very difficult with thorns at every step ahead and flowers when our appeal please others ."Girl is a blessing every parents cant afford ". Many will oppose me and my feminism way of talking ,I dont need gender equality I need gender equity dont misunderstand the gender equality agenda its about respecting human be it male or female many will oppose male gender but it's not worth we have to fight for our right and not to oppose  gender get that thing inside your mind. You have to take stand for yourself no one will come and protect you coz you are a girl that needs continuous assurance of protection and respect, earn the respect work for it and protect yourself coz you love yourself .

Why is it important that you listen to society ? It is important coz you will get how this people see you and how you will ignore them simple… You have to hear them yes but you have to ignore them it's a double yes ..you dont have to be the girl they want, you do what you want to . Anyhow if you are married they will ask for a baby and if you will say it's my choice I dont want my baby for some years they will say that there is no hidden mother inside you, well then tell them  you are not baby production factory and not married to your husband to provide them the baby. Even if you are not married and ambitious and taking care of yourself and your family just one man army they will gonna say that girl is manner less she dont know how to respect elders and how to get married coz her character is not good and have many boys in her charming hands to rotate around, well then tell them you are not here to let the population go more populated and you have a more role to play that is a daughter and a lady that can feed her family and can feed herself with love and care as much as you want not how much the society care.

Girl!!!you are gonna make  your standard high coz this filthy small insects like people are just like dust always gonna bother you.

“Darling make your standards high not your heels”.

Have an optimistic view coz you are worth it .