Sometime somewhere to anyone anywhere we are grateful to them. No matter what dont express it or dont do the publicity stunt to make it obvious that you have done so much of great thing to them and dont pretend that they have to pay you back with the same gratitude. You Will often get chances to prove yourself a trustworthy and perfect opponent to do great work but at the same time when you will show off your greatness you will be back to square zero and start again the restart button of humanity again. You have to work for it.
Even after helping someone you have every rights to be happy and joyfull and also feel satisfied by it ,but not with the greatness In your upper self of your mind it can lead to pride and misconception of knowing anything and have ability to do anything , no one is able to do everything. We are humans not god we are allowed to help others but not allowed to show off to another person and make proud on it . Many will listen you and will tap on your back but many will pity on you coz you just helped others to show off and to gain others attention.
“A great man is that who is always willing to be little”.
“A great person dont seek for applause they just seek for vital truth”.
You will get thousands of oppurtunity to prove yourself that you are great not for your mental sake but actually helping and showing greatness to the needy one and will get only a mere chance to prove it coz whenever you will show off and be proud on your greatness you will be getting a notice letter that this is not appropriate you should stop now better you stop it .
There is an proverb in hindi: Jab dan karo to dahine hath ko bhi pata nahi chalna chaiyeh.
It means that whenever you give something to someone your left hand should not be aware of it that is you dont have to take a mike and shout in it that you have done a great job .. no its completely useless be silent enjoy the satisfaction and let the needy be happy with whatever you have provided.
Carrying this attitude can lead you to many wonders of world and will unlock them slowly and gradually.
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