Apart from basic needs, we have everything that we need in our life. It might be given by our parents or earned by us. All the activities we do, all those things that we buy, food we eat, clothes we wear etc should satisfy us or else what is the use of living life the most!?
We should never demand anything that our parents or ourselves cannot afford. Knowing our limits and live a satisfied life is always better than regretting by comparing it with others. Comparison always hurts. It demands a lot from us.
When it comes to our career, we must decide it by discussing with ourselves first. Because that is when we get to know about our wants, likes, dislikes, strengths, weakness. We should often talk with our inner self which strengthen us in every way. I suggest everyone not to discuss career decisions or problems with anyone, not even with you parents. Self- decision gives us satisfaction and lead a happy life without any future regrets.
Many of us want that one person whom we trust the most to advice or suggest us to decide what we want and that is completely ok as it is just an advice. But always ho with your first instinct. That is the quick and pure feel about your dreams or goals. Our satisfaction lies in our instincts which is within ourselves, so let no one decide for you instead you do it for your own purpose.
Even I have so many regression among which I would regret for the rest of my life is, change of college. I wanted to join my dream college which I was supposed to join for PUC itself but somehow joined the other college where my expectations were exact opposite. The worst is, I joined the same college even for my UG due to other's opinion. This decision will definitely haunt me forever because that did not satisfy me how much ever I try to make myself feel good about it.
The word ‘self-satisfaction’ is underrated but it is important to make it visible in everyone's life. At the end you are going to be with you and nobody else. Life is offering us exciting opportunities each day so make complete use of it under your own decisions which follows your own instincts and not somebody else's opinion. You are important to you.
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