Published Feb 6, 2023
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How Our Friendship Turns Into Love

Published Feb 6, 2023
3 mins read
585 words

According to psychology there are four main criteria that determine the likelihood of falling in love - physical attractiveness, similarity, proximity and reciprocity and more that all of these overlap, the higher chances there are of a friendship whether romantic or platonic, working and flourishing.

Now you really think that possible for a friendship to turn into love. We probably heard someone say at some point in time for a relationship to workout in the long run. A good friendship is important. Seeing your partner as a best friend is a great foundation for a long time relationship or marriage.

Can friends become lovers? This is probably one of the first thought, that came to your mind. And even if they can, there the obvious fear of things turning awkward if your friend does not have the same feeling for you. The truth is that if the person you have strong romantic feelings for his already your friend. It is a good thing. Because a strong friendship lays a solid foundation for a romantic relationship.

Now let's look into some signs that your friendship is blossoming into love.

  1. The communication frequency between you two increase- if you are having a feeling of being love with your friend makes your mind always think about him or her. You start to become a part in their life. The sharing of the daily activities, emotions and feelings make the bond stronger. You will start to take care of each other.
  2. You suddenly experience jealousy- talking about ex partners or best friend is a common thing. You might feel some sort of jealousy when they speak about their ex's. It's another sign because your mind doesn't want to visualise your partner with others.
  3. You two start flirting with each other- you have to understand whether it's just you to being friendly with each other or is it flirting? With time, if your friend feels to same way you will notice them paying bunches of compliments, touching you often, making subtle eye contact and so on.

DECISION MAKING 

Before you make a decision to pursue your friend romanticly you should think critically and carefully about why you like them and why you want your relationship to change.

Remember that once you tell your friend that you liked them, your friendship will change forever. For example that if you want to date them just because you feel happy around them, this may not to be the best reason to pursue a relationship. Before talking to your friend about your feelings, consult someone you trust like a friend or a parent. They have probably experienced something similar in the life and will be able to give you good advice and inside about how to proceed with your feeling. Your mutual friend will be able to help you out a specially because they are familiar with two of you and they will be able to be more objective.

The more things progress,the time will come for the two of you to go on a proper date. Set aside sometime to go out to dinner with one another or to a movie. Dates really set a tone off romance in a relationship and will further move you two away from friendship into love.

CONCLUSION

A friend before lovers situation the same and feel complicated.but it's also exciting however keep the aforementioned signs in mind and weigh out the cons and pros of the situation. Then make a decision. And love your friend partner at most.

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Superb vroo.... 💝
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